Zico & His Bui
Biswajit Jha is a journalist-turned-social entrepreneur, columnist, and author. His…
We share this heartwarming story of Zico and his beloved Bui, a testament to the power of non-biological love. In a home filled with memories and affection, Bui has become Zico’s rock and refuge, showcasing that true connections transcend blood ties.
In a cozy home, where the echoes of laughter and the whispers of past memories intertwine, my son Zico spends most of his time. This home belongs to his beloved Dadai, his maternal grandfather. Though the walls are filled with warmth and affection, there is a lingering absence—the love of his maternal grandmother, who passed away in 2010, three years before Zico was born. However, from the chilly morning of January 6th, 2013, when Zico entered the world, there has been a constant presence in his life, a woman who has become his rock and refuge—his favorite Bui.
Bui, affectionately called Buri Masi by the family, has been Zico’s caretaker, confidante, and friend. Despite being illiterate, she has flawlessly managed Zico’s daily needs, from arranging his clothes to preparing his meals. Her concern for Zico mirrors that of a mother, especially when he falls ill. She ensures his books and copies are in order and even assists him with his homework, displaying a dedication that transcends her limitations.
At 72, Bui stands as a testament to resilience and strength. She is one of the fittest women around, having cared for 16 children before Zico. Each of these children has grown into successful adults, now scattered across India and the globe. Bui’s journey has taken her to various cities, including Delhi, Mumbai, Hyderabad, and Jaipur. She even traveled to Australia to care for a family’s young daughter. Despite her extensive travels and years of hard work, she now speaks of a well-deserved retirement. Yet, her love for Zico makes her reconsider, time and time again.
Whenever Bui mentions the possibility of returning to her home, Zico clings to her, pleading with her not to leave. This poignant scene underscores a powerful question: Do we need only biological connections to feel close to someone? The bond between Zico and Bui is a testament to the fact that pure love is enough to forge a connection as deep and profound as any biological tie.
Bui’s unwavering devotion to Zico and his equally strong attachment to her highlights the beauty of non-biological relationships. Their story is a celebration of love in its purest form—a love that does not require shared blood but is built on care, trust, and a deep-seated affection that transcends all boundaries.
As Bui contemplates her retirement, one can only hope that her bond with Zico continues to flourish. Their relationship serves as a reminder that love knows no bounds, and the connections we form with others can be just as significant and life-affirming as those we share with our biological family.
In a world where relationships are often defined by genetics, the story of Zico and Bui stands out, showcasing the power of love to bridge gaps and create unbreakable bonds. Their journey together is a beautiful narrative of how love, in its purest form, can create a family that is bound not by blood, but by the heart.
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Biswajit Jha is a journalist-turned-social entrepreneur, columnist, and author. His debut book, "Bike Ambulance Dada," was published by Penguin Random House in 2021, and he also authored "Modern Buddha," which explores the true meaning of success and happiness in life. Jha worked as a journalist in the national media in New Delhi for 10 years before quitting his job to focus on social work. He is dedicated to teaching underprivileged children in West Bengal, combining his passion for writing and social entrepreneurship to make a positive impact on society.